Say Goodbye Explanation

So lemme explain say goodbye.. i have had people ask me what does that song mean? why did you write it?.. well thats simple..

have you ever felt like you were trapped in a relationship? you felt like you were so in love that you were not even happy? lol i know it sounds weird but its very possible.. you can love somebody soooo much that you are overwhelming the other person in the relationship.. on a chart from one to ten.. you love them 20% and they only love you 10% which is normal... but since you love them 20% you feel like they should love you 20% as well.. then u start feeling cheated.. NOT cheated on... but cheated... like you are giving more then what is been giving back to you..

this normally is the case for ppl who love HARD.. i happen to be one who loves HARD lol.. and in my past experiences it became clear that i was always the one OVER loving lol...yes it is a such thing as men over loving.. most men who over love BEAT they women.. and is scared to let them from they eyesight.. but you have some men like myself.. who over loves.. then takes the non over love for not bein in love lol.. complicated much

well say goodbye was written for all of those who are in love.. but aren't getting anything from the person they love.. here are the lyrics..

I had to know the rite reason for me 2 say it
all the times you ignore me and take what i say for granted
u know its been on my mind... and its hard for me to do
but to prove that i love you gotta say goodbye 2 you..

you may not understand it but thats just the way life goes
and you have 2 know the reason that i had to let you go
and to help you understand ive done the best that i can do
but to say that i love you i gotta say goodbye to you

say goodbye bye bye bye bye
when you know whats on your mind mind mind mind mind
you may have to cry cry cry cry cry
but know that when its over
you 2 will be closer
so for rite now just say good bye

i understand it seems we turned our lives around when
just a few days ago we were standing on solid ground but
you know it and i know it that things aren't the way they seem
so i stand here before you and to you this song i sing

say goodbye bye our relationship ends
no need to lie lie but if you want 2 stay friends
dont mean 2 hurt you but what more can i do
to prove that i love you so im sayin goodbye to you

i know that it seems like its torture baby
i know that it feels like we cant b the same but
you know it and i know it that things aren't the way they seem
so to say that i love you and move on from here it is the way

say goodbye bye bye bye bye
when you know whats on your mind mind mind mind mind
you may have to cry cry cry cry cry
but know that when its over
you 2 will be closer
so for rite now just say good bye

copyright 2009 David Lamar steal it u payin me


blah blah blah.. sooo what exactly does it mean?? well simple.. sometimes people take relationships for granted.. and no matter what you do to prove that you really love them and to show them how much you love them.. they seem unaffected.. all thats doing is hurting you.. they are fine.. but your not happy.. you sit and cry at night because you feel like you cant get thru.. they sleep good.. why put yourself thru it? i tell females that all the time.. if your not happy.. if u feel ignore.. and taken for granted.. WHY ARE YOU STAYING WITH HIM!?? and it goes for dudes 2.. why are you staying with her?!?!?

sometimes the best way to say i love you is to say goodbye.. believe it or not.. if they REALLY LOVE YOU.. they will come after you.. they wont just say goodbye back.. and be done.. they will run after you realizing then what they have lost.. realizing that while you were crying out for them..they were blowing you off.. it may not even have been on intentional some ppl are just like that.. and they need a rude awakening and sometimes thats.. waking up and finding that you are gone... only then will they realize what they almost missed out on...

end the end you both will be closer.. if real love was involved.. if it was just child games.. o i gotta bf.. or o i gotta gf.. then thats NOT what you needed n e way.. and good thing its over.. but if u are in love... they are in love.. then when u leave... and they come after you.. and you sit down and figure out wuts wut.. u will be closer.. and you will have a MUCH happier relationship.. but the most important thing is that you are happy.. unfortunately we as humans tend to worry about other ppls feelings and emotions more then we worry about ourselves.. well its time to worry about yourself.. and leave.. its not fair to you to sit thru a relationship were it feels like your talking to a wall.. leave.. if they love you they will come after you.. if they dont.. it wasnt meant to be..

amen lol